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Girls in Gangs

Not every girl joins a gang because she wants a criminal lifestyle. Sometimes she’s just looking for a place to belong.

A teenage girl relaxing in a sunlit park

What if everything you’ve seen about girls and gangs was only showing you half the story?

A smiling teenage girl wearing headphones

Sometimes the biggest warning signs don’t look dangerous at all.

A smiling teenage girl at a skatepark holding a phone

What if the strongest protection against gang recruitment isn’t fear — but connection?

Understanding the Risks

Why girls join — it might not be what you think

Girls’ involvement in gangs is often shaped by factors that differ from those experienced by boys. Research shows that relationships, trauma, exploitation, and a search for belonging can all play a role.

When people picture gang involvement, they rarely picture girls. But girls and young women across British Columbia are recruited into gangs every year — and their pathway in usually looks nothing like the stereotype.

Research shows most girls don’t join a gang seeking crime or violence. They join because the gang appears to offer what every young person needs: belonging, love, acceptance, protection, and security. For girls whose lives are missing those things, a gang can feel like a surrogate family.

And most girls aren’t recruited by strangers. They’re introduced by someone they trust — a boyfriend, a family member, or a close friend. That’s why prevention doesn’t start with judgment. It starts with understanding.

All this July, our four-part video series follows that story — why girls join, the reality behind the myths, the warning signs, and the connection that protects. Learn the signs, know the facts, and know that help is free, confidential, and available right now.

Follow the series

Warning Signs

Gang recruitment doesn’t always begin with crime. Sometimes it starts with attention, gifts, protection, or someone making a girl feel like she finally belongs. Over time, that attention can turn into control.

See the Signs
What to watch for

Nine signs identified by the RCMP and BC researchers

01

A new, often older, boyfriend

Or a sudden new friend group she is secretive or defensive about.

02

Unexplained money and gifts

Clothes, nails, phones, rides — with no job or proof of employment.

03

Pulling away

Withdrawing from family, longtime friends, and activities she used to enjoy.

04

School slipping

A sudden drop in performance, skipping classes, or leaving school.

05

Staying out late

Going missing overnight, with stories that don’t add up.

06

Unexplained injuries

Or a new fearfulness, anxiety, or jumpiness.

07

A second cell phone

Or highly secretive online and social media activity.

08

New symbols

Tattoos, gang colours, or graffiti on notebooks and personal items.

09

Alcohol or drug use

Especially when supplied “free” by new friends.

One sign alone may not mean danger. But several together deserve attention — recognizing the signs today could help prevent harm tomorrow.

For girls: real support should never make you feel trapped. For parents: stay connected, ask questions, and trust your instincts.

Watch the PSA

Girls and Gangs — understanding the risks

Not every girl joins a gang because she wants a criminal lifestyle. Watch how recruitment really happens, and how understanding — not judgment — opens a safer path forward.

The Weekly Series

Four weeks. Four conversations.

Over four weeks, our video series explored one part of the story at a time — why girls join, the myths, the warning signs, and the connection that protects. Watch them all right here.

Go Deeper

The expert interview — gangs and human trafficking

A longer conversation with a human trafficking expert on how gangs exploit girls and young women — and what communities can do about it.

Follow the series

“Prevention doesn’t start with judgment. It starts with understanding.”

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Facts

What the research tells us about girls and gangs

01

Recruitment is relational and local

Recruiters seek out vulnerable girls and offer friendship, protection, and material goods — at first free of charge. Common recruitment settings include schools, malls, bus loops, parks, parties, and social media.[4][8]

02

Violence at home is a pathway in

Exposure to violence and victimization makes gangs appealing to young women — yet once involved, girls face more exploitation and victimization, not less.[1]

03

Sexual exploitation

Canadian research found that women and girls involved in gangs are frequently sexually exploited and, in some cases, trafficked by gang members for profit.[4][6]

04

Gang life is dangerous for girls in B.C.

Women connected to the B.C. gang conflict have been targets, not bystanders — girlfriends and associates of gang members have been among its homicide victims.[4]

Myths & Realities

What people believe — and what’s true

Movies and social media can make gang life look exciting. The reality is often manipulation, exploitation, and control.

Myth

Girls join gangs because they want a criminal lifestyle.

Reality

Most girls join looking for belonging, acceptance, love, protection, or an escape from difficult circumstances — the gang fills unmet needs before it exploits them.[1][4]

Myth

Girls are recruited by strangers.

Reality

Most are introduced by someone they trust — a boyfriend, a family member, or a close friend. Recruiters deliberately build friendship and romance first.[4][8]

Myth

A gang will protect her.

Reality

Research shows the opposite: once involved, girls experience more violence, exploitation, and victimization — including sexual exploitation — than before they joined.[1][6]

Myth

The gifts, money, and attention are free.

Reality

They’re an investment. What is given “free” at the start — clothes, drugs, parties, protection — is later called in as debt, obligation, and control.[4]

Myth

Girls only play minor, background roles.

Reality

Girls’ roles are expanding into recruiting, drug dealing, and enforcement — which also means greater criminal liability and greater danger.[1][2]

Myth

Men are usually the ones that get searched — not women.

Reality

The promise isn’t true. When officers search everyone, girls are the ones left holding the evidence — and facing the consequences.

Myth

Once she’s in, there’s no way out.

Reality

People leave gang life every year with the right support. In B.C., free, confidential, judgment-free help is available — no strings attached.[10]

They’re not asking you to be family. They’re asking you to take the risk for them. Don’t let someone else make you take the fall.

“You deserve relationships that lift you up — not ones that use you.”

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Gang Intervention & Exiting

A safer path. A stronger future.

The strongest protection is real connection — trusted adults, supportive friends, positive role models, and opportunities that build confidence, resilience, and a true sense of belonging. And when more help is needed, CFSEU-BC’s Gang Intervention and Exiting Team (GIET) is here for anyone who wants to leave gang life — working alongside local community outreach and provincial supports — with help for education, employment, counselling, life coaching, mental health, and safety planning.

To every girl: you deserve relationships that lift you up — not ones that use you. To parents and caring adults: stay present, listen without judgment, and keep the conversation going.

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Gang Exiting Help Line 604-897-6023

One conversation today could save a life tomorrow

For Parents & Caring Adults

Questions parents ask most often

How do I know if my daughter is involved in a gang?

Look for a pattern of changes rather than one sign: a new, often older boyfriend or secretive friend group; money, gifts or rides she can’t explain; pulling away from family and old friends; slipping at school; staying out late or going missing overnight; a second phone; unexplained injuries; new tattoos or gang symbols; and alcohol or drug use supplied by new friends. Several of these together deserve attention.

What should I do if I think my daughter is being recruited by a gang in B.C.?

Stay calm and stay connected. Ask open questions, listen without judgment, and let her know she can come to you no matter what. Then get support: CFSEU-BC’s Gang Intervention and Exiting Team (GIET) offers free, confidential help, and families can reach out at 604-897-6023 or gangintervention@cfseu.bc.ca. The Youth Against Violence Line (1-800-680-4264) is available 24/7. If she is in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.

Are girls in gangs sexually exploited?

Often, yes. Canadian and B.C. research has found that girls and women involved in gangs are frequently sexually exploited and, in some cases, trafficked by gang members for profit.[4][6] The Canadian Human Trafficking Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-833-900-1010.

Support & Resources

You don’t have to handle this alone

Every conversation matters. Every connection counts. Together, we can help girls find belonging before someone else offers them a false version of it.

Provincial — British Columbia

Gang Intervention and Exiting Team (GIET)

CFSEU-BC — for anyone who wants to leave gang life — 604-897-6023 · gangintervention@cfseu.bc.ca

End Gang Life

Education, real stories, and support — endganglife.ca

Youth Against Violence Line

Talk or report, 24/7, confidential — 1-800-680-4264

VictimLinkBC

24/7 support in 240+ languages — 1-800-563-0808

erase — Expect Respect and A Safe Education

B.C.’s school safety strategy — gov.bc.ca/erase

RCMP & Federal

RCMP Centre for Youth Crime Prevention

Warning signs and prevention — rcmp.ca

Public Safety Canada

National research and prevention programs — publicsafety.gc.ca

Kids Help Phone

24/7 national support for youth — 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868

Canadian Human Trafficking Hotline

24/7, confidential — 1-833-900-1010

In an emergency, always call 9-1-1

Research & Sources

Where this content comes from

Everything on this page is drawn from Canadian research and government sources. Numbers correspond to the citations above.

01

Dunbar, L. (2017). Youth Gangs in Canada: A Review of Current Topics and Issues. Ottawa: Public Safety Canada. publicsafety.gc.ca

02

Public Safety Canada. Youth Gangs in Canada: What Do We Know? Building the Evidence series, citing the 2002 Canadian Police Survey on Youth Gangs. publicsafety.gc.ca

03

Public Safety Canada. Youth Gang Involvement: What Are the Risk Factors? publicsafety.gc.ca

04

Abbotsford Youth Commission (2010). Girls, Gangs and Sexual Exploitation in British Columbia. Prepared for the BC Ministry of Public Safety and Solicitor General. www2.gov.bc.ca (PDF)

05

Totten, M. (2008). Promising Practices for Addressing Youth Involvement in Gangs. Victoria: BC Ministry of Public Safety and Solicitor General. www2.gov.bc.ca (PDF)

06

Totten, M., with the Native Women’s Association of Canada (2010). Research on gang-associated sexual exploitation and trafficking of Indigenous women and girls. ourcommons.ca (PDF)

07

Royal Canadian Mounted Police. Youth Gangs — Centre for Youth Crime Prevention. rcmp.ca

08

Dorais, M., & Corriveau, P. (2009). Gangs and Girls: Understanding Juvenile Prostitution. Montreal: McGill-Queen’s University Press.

09

Surrey Schools / Safer Schools Together. Early Warning Signs: Youth and Gang Involvement. surreyschools.ca

10

CFSEU-BC. Gang Intervention and Exiting Team (GIET). endganglife.ca

Note: the most recent national police survey of youth gangs dates to 2002; figures are presented with that caveat and are considered conservative by researchers.

Last reviewed: September 21, 2026.